I (we) are looking for preferably one couple to play with on a semi-regular basis. A couple that we can be friends with and that if the mood strikes us all I can spend time with while Hubby is away. When hubby is home we could all play together or separate. We haven’t found that couple yet, only posers looking for the all-elusive bi-female ” to fullfill some male fantasy. That’s NOT what I’m looking for. Basically consider it a hard swap but that my hubby may nt be able to join us all of the time.